Those other losses…A message to you about secondary losses
Dear Readers, Today, we want to talk to you about something that caught us completely off guard after our husbands died. You might have experienced this as well. We didn’t…
Dear Readers, Today, we want to talk to you about something that caught us completely off guard after our husbands died. You might have experienced this as well. We didn’t…
Bereavement marks the beginning of a journey filled with grief, transition, and self-discovery. When this journey is the loss of a spouse, it is not just the absence of a…
When looking at traumatic events and the concept of emotions surrounding the events, there is often a discussion about the difference between grief and bereavement. While these terms are frequently…
If you've been following our blog for a while, you know that we believe in the power of shared experience. While we know that grief is deeply personal, we also…
Grief is something we often struggle with as widows, so let’s spend some time with the word and think about what it means. As you are reading, please remember that…
New Year’s resolutions. Ugh. Sometimes, just getting through each day can be daunting when grieving. Just surviving seems like enough. Enter the new year with everyone calling for fresh starts,…
Wishing you a Merry Christmas from Torn in Half ~ Jeni & Teresa
The holidays can be a delicate balancing act for widows and widowers. Well-meaning family and friends often have said or unsaid requests and expectations. In addition, there is the expectation…
Throughout the holidays, people often expect us to be joyful, merry, happy, grateful, and all the other positive emotions usually involved in a celebration or a season of merriment. When…
When grieving, it’s not uncommon to feel guilt if we’re enjoying a moment, happy, or making fun plans. That’s normal, and it is more than OK to be happy and…